So, I’m gonna get real candid here to all the girls my age. This literally came to me as I was looking at all my former college classmates on their different social media sites, and I realized something. I’m twenty-four years old, I work at a job I hate, I’m single, and I feel like I should be doing something more with my life, than what I am.
Does anyone else feel like this?
I’ll be honest; I don’t feel like this often. I have cycles that I go through when it comes to life. Most of the time I’m happy with where I am in life and what I’m doing; then there’s these short periods where I feel like I should have a better job, doing better with my life, be married (or at least dating the one I will.)
These pass, and they pass quickly. It’ll only be a couple days when I feel like this, and I think that’s partly societies fault. Society tells you that if you aren’t married by your early twenties with a house, good job, two and a half kids and a dog, you’re not doing something right in life.
That’s not true. At all.
You don’t need to be in a relationship with someone. You don’t need to have your life figured out and be where you’re supposed to be. You don’t need any of that until you’re happy and whole as yourself.
I am twenty-four years old, I work at a job I hate, I’m trying my hand at business and writing a blog, and I’m single. I don’t have time for a guy; I’ve got other stuff to do. Stuff for me and me alone. I wanna travel the world, (or at least the US.) I wanna become a successful businesswoman, and I know there is more for me than what society wants.
I need to find myself, for myself and then everything else will fall into place.
Lotsa Love,
Liz